Hating on love

Yesterday night was Dance battle in my college. Like groups compete against each other, and then there is a winner who wins cash. ah. oh well my friends won so i was happy but i didnt celebrate like i normally would. Why? Cos i was being sad/pissed thanks to my boyfriend. I wont go into the details but basically he said i did something which i totally did not do and even after explaining to him that i did not do it, he was still giving me attitude.

And now i am sitting here with a friend of mine who just got brutally dumped by her boyfriend about 3 weeks ago and thinking how complex the whole issue of love and relationships is. Its pretty amazing that the one person who makes you smile (or is supposed to!) is the person that always makes you sad or hurts you the most. The irony!

Well before any wrong ideas are gotten, i ain't condemnin anyone. Just saying if ur gonna be in a relationship, be very prepared. Its not as nice dey make it look on tv! Its hard work and der r days ur gonna wanna pull ur hair out (or ur bf/gf's hair). Right now, i wanna pull out his cos i changed my hair just yesterday so its still too pretty to be messed with :)

Seriously though, dont get into a relationship for daft reasons like the person's "cute" or "hot", or even "nice". cos if the person's cute, just hug em. if it's hot, make out! and if its nice, buy a bloody card saying "You're nice"!